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## Current Behavior
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Calculating conflicts in target names does not consider if the
project.json defined targets will actually be impacted by the plugin
that wants to be added creating false negatives
## Expected Behavior
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Calculating conflicts should be more accurate
## Related Issue(s)
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Fixes#22476
